When thinking about reflection, it is more common for people to think about what went wrong for us and our business. Although this does have its place so that we can learn what we would do differently, I believe it is more beneficial to spend more time thinking about what went well.
So – 2 exercises that will serve you well for 2011. Allow yourself some you time (perhaps over the holidays), sit down in a quiet space, with your favourite drink and:
1. Write a letter to a friend or family member that you have not seen all year (it’s okay you don’t have to send it), tell them what has gone well for you this year in both business (or work) and/or personally in 2010.
2. imagine it is December 2011 and you are writing a letter to a friend or family member that you have not seen all year, what will have happened during that time. As you think about what you will have achieved, what will be seeing, hearing, thinking and feeling. Really focus on the feelings that come up, are you excited, joyous, happy, content, in love, passionate, optimistic, positive.
Please feel free to email me your letters if you want to share.
Here are mine to give you an idea how I do it.
Wishing all my clients and website visitors, past present and future a wonderful time over the holidays and a happy, healthy and wealthy 2011.
With love, Irene
December 2010
Dear Aunty
I expect that you are fit and well. We are all well here. As usual here is an update on where I am at:
Business
I am still working with business owners and directors. Business is going well, turnover and profits increased from the previous year and I worked with 100% of the clients I had the previous year (that must say something about the work that I do, and the difference I help my clients make).
I have invested heavily in a high level mentoring programme for business and self development and it has been amazing the knock on effect this continued investment has on my clients.
I have helped clients achieved some impressive results in business, supported business owners and directors through some challenging situations and I was very excited to mentor business owners through strategy development, often the first time they had taken time out to do this. I love doing this type of work
On a personal note, I am very proud that my son was able this year to buy his own house – 2 years ahead of schedule. He too has learned the power of goal setting and having positive intentions.
With love, Irene
December 2011
Dear Aunty
I expect that you are fit and well. We are all well here. As usual here is an update on where I am at:
Business
I am still working with business owners and directors. Business is going well, turnover and profits have increased again from the previous year.
The mentoring programme I told you about last time has certainly been worth the investment, which I don’t mind saying now was more than I could afford at the time. Still I now know, it is worth continuing to investing in your business and yourself. I wouldn’t have it any other way.
This year I exceed the results I helped clients achieve last year. In January I changed the structure of what I offered and now have more people that I have worked with during the year. The Emergency Action Plan approach to sort out my clients “people issues” has gone down extremetly well. I am also doing much more strategic work with clients, setting the strategy and then assisting in the implementation phase.
I have also gone “online” with training in things like; having difficult conversations, absence management, delegation etc.
On a personal note, I am delighted to say that we had our first cruise this year. We visited the Fjords in Norway and to say it was spectacular would be an understatement. Also, you remember how cold it was last December, well I vowed we would spend more time in the warm, so I am writing this year from Florida. I structured my year so that we could spend at least 4 weeks away from the UK this winter. I love it when plan comes together.
With love, Irene